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5 Keys to Your Visibility Plan

Tuesday, January 31st, 2012

No matter who you are or what your soul-centered project is – entrepreneur, writer, teacher, artist, etc (even if your project is attracting a romantic partner!) – a powerful visibility plan is essential to being able to get seen, be prosperous and get what you want.

When you don’t have an effective visibility plan, then chances are you are under-earning, not getting the acclaim or acknowledgment you want, or doing work that doesn’t fully satisfy you.

I hear this time and time again from women who come to me for help – you have a service, product, artwork, idea that you are in LOVE with. Yet, the clients aren’t coming, or the agents aren’t coming, or the press isn’t coming, or the prospective employers aren’t coming. And here’s what usually happens next: you start beating yourself up, or judging yourself, or feeling victimized or in despair. Not a great way to move forward!

Instead of re-acting in these ways, I want you to take action! And the best way to take action is to create a visibility plan that is effective, soul-centered and powerful.

For my business, as well as the businesses, career changes, creative careers, and world-changing initiatives that I support women with, your visibility plan is one of the most important foundations for success.

Here are 5 Keys to creating & executing a powerful visibility plan:

  1. Have a plan in advance: Ok, I know for some of you this might be obvious, but it is important to mention. You need a plan. Not just a plan in your head, but an actual, concrete visibility plan that you’ve written down, plotted and calendared out. My recommendation is to plan out at least 6 months in advance (but no more than 12 months in advance) so that you have time to prepare, time for contingency, and time to re-work any new ideas into the mix.

    If you don’t plan in advance, you’re going to find you’re always rushing to catch up, or two days too late for that conference application, press release submission, networking event, or community email.

  2. Make it Personal: I meet way too many rising leaders out there who write marketing copy, create video or prepare talks that speak to what they think people are looking for and what they assume people might want from them. Instead, I want you to share your message from a place of what is true and authentic for you and who you are, as well as speak directly and personally to your audience.

    Your clients, viewers, readers, and press will be much more likely to walk through your door if you reveal YOURSELF through your marketing and speak directly to their hearts and souls (not their minds).

  3. Choose Visibility Strategies that Match Your Strengths: There are so many awesome visibility strategies out there: newsletters, email, video, in-person workshops, Facebook, networking meetings, blogs, audio, referral program, Twitter – this list goes on and on. This is one of the things I absolutely love about visibility and marketing: the sky’s the limit on your creativity and how you choose to make yourself known, and nothing is pre-set or cookie cutter.

    But here is an important tip: choose those strategies that make the most sense for you and your soul-centered project. For example, if your newsletter and blog are your biggest visibility strategies, but you just hate writing and it takes you hours to write a paragraph – choose a different strategy! Or, if you’ve been mainly focusing on social media, but you’re the type of person that folks are immediately attracted to when they meet you in person, go to more networking events or do in-person presentations. The most effective visibility strategies are the ones that match how you show up best as well as how your ideal clients HEAR your message best.

  4. Enlist Partners: You can’t bring your big message and vision to the world alone. There is not one single person (unless they’ve already reached Oprah status) who has so many people in their sphere of influence that they can attract in visibility without creating partnerships and joint ventures.

    Partnerships are one of the best visibility tools out there. When you enlist other individuals, organizations and businesses to help promote you and spread the word about your project, your ability to reach your ideal client increases exponentially.

  5. Activate “P.C.A.”: P.C.A is a beloved Soulful Coaching acronym for Persistent and Consistent Action. P.C.A can make the difference between a successful and non-successful plan.

    Consistent Action = taking at least 3 actions towards your visibility strategies each working day. If you aren’t taking consistent action, then even the best laid plan in the world isn’t going to work. Think about it in terms of a flower: you need to water that flower regularly in order to keep it alive and see it grow.

    Persistent Action = following-up. I know – for some of you, this is the “F” word of marketing. It feels way too scary to follow-up on an email you sent out with a call to action or a talk you gave where you want to send folks more info about your work. Yet, often times folks don’t “buy” or “connect in” on the first bit, so follow-up is 100% necessary in order to reach your visibility goals.

Now that you’ve got the 5 Soul-Centered Keys for Visibility, have fun letting the world know about your sacred purpose and message!

It’s My Birthday: Sacred Birthday Rituals and a Gift!

Sunday, August 28th, 2011
A gift from me to you for my birthday!

A gift from me to you!

My birthday falls on August 28th (that’s today!). My birthday is super-special to me, and I like to have big celebrations. At the same time, I also make sure that every year on my actual birthday I make some dedicated sacred space just for ME.

What do I do during this sacred time? I do a ritual that allows me to gracefully and joyfully let go of one year and powerfully move on to the next.

How do I do this?

  1. I create a ritual atmosphere that allows me to really connect deeply with myself. I light candles, burn incense, get comfortable, and breathe.
  2. From there, I review the year that has just past. I note all the things that I am grateful for, all the things I’m proud of, all the things I really want to celebrate. I really make the time to honor my accomplishments and blessings. This is so important in the process of moving forward.
  3. Next, I acknowledge all of the things that happened during the last year that aren’t serving me, and that I am ready to let go of. Things on this list might be disappointments about losses, ways that I am judging myself, relationships that are no longer working. I honestly and lovingly get very clear with myself on all the things that I don’t want to take with me into my new year. Then I breathe each of those things out of my system. Slowly, with focus. I let them go so that I can move forward without anything holding me back.
  4. Finally, I look forward! I sense into the coming year of my life and set goals and intentions for the year to come. I write them all down and then infuse those goals into an item that I keep with me for the entire year – a candle, a new scarf, a necklace, a new plant.

Going through this sacred birthday ritual each year has allowed me to move forward in my life and work in HUGE ways. Why? Because it has helped me assess emotionally what needs to happen next as well as get clear on what concretely needs to happen next.

Of course, there are quite a few more steps to be able to do this on a weekly and monthly basis so that you create success in your life and work. And that’s why I created the Women’s Intuitive Leadership Program! It is a 12-week tele-training for women who are really ready to experience big change in their lives.

And, in honor of my birthday, for the next 48 hours (until midnight on 8/30), I am gifting everyone with a whopping 35% off the program.

http://www.soulfulcoach.com/birthdayWILP.php

The gift of this discount and program are straight from my heart to yours! So, if you have been waiting from the right time to enroll in the Women’s Intuitive Leadership Program – NOW is the time.

Joanna

Detox Your Way to Health and Greater Success - An interview with the Detox Goddess, Lisa Fabrega!

Friday, August 26th, 2011

An interview with the Detox Goddess, Lisa Fabrega!by Joanna Lindenbaum, Woman Wisdom Success Coach

I am just THRILLED to share with you the magical Lisa Fabrega. Lisa is the Pleasurable Detox coach. She is creatrix of Not a Skinny Minnie Wellness (www.notaskinnyminny.com), and a total wise woman when it comes to helping you understand exactly what’s right for your body.

I was able to sit down (virtually!) with Lisa for an wisdom-packed interview on the 4 Pillars for Detoxifing Your Life. It is just so easy to learn and be inspired from this woman. This is a must-watch video, and I’m so happy to be bringing Lisa’s experience the the Soulful Coaching community because any woman who is working on being a soul-centered leader needs to be taking care of her body too!

Watch the interview now! (it’s my first step into the world of video, FYI!)

Detox Your Way to Health and Greater Success - An interview with the Detox Goddess, Lisa Fabrega! from Joanna Lindenbaum on Vimeo.

4 Soul-Centered Secrets for Launching ANYTHING (I mean ANYTHING!)

Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011

Ahh, the feelings that come with starting something new. Whether it’s a relationship or a job, there is an excitement and a mystery that comes with new beginnings. It can be intoxicating or it can be terrifying. It can get you up in the morning, or it can make you feel like hiding under the covers.

However you respond to new beginnings in your life and career, there are some foundational skills you want to have in order to launch this new entity with success and joy. If you don’t have these tools in place, it will be very difficult to get your new project off the ground.

But before tell you some of my favorite tools for starting something new (I’ve got so many; it was hard to choose just 4!), first let me give you some examples of what launching something new can encompass:

•    Program that you’re teaching
•    Business
•    Career
•    Job
•    Team Members
•    Relationship or Friendship
•    Exercise Routine
•    Marketing Plan
•    Work of Art
•    Community Organization
•    Etc.

And without further ado, here are 4 of my favorite Soul-Centered Secrets for Launching ANYTHING:

1) Get Excited about Your New Project: I know this might seem obvious, but think about how many times you set off to do something new, and it felt heavy, or stressful, or you just felt so-so about it. Not too much positive energy there, right?

If you aren’t excited about your new business or relationship or team member, then it will be very challenging to feel energized and spring into intentional action to move it forward. So here’s what I recommend: see if you can get excited about this new thing you’re embarking on. Make a list of all of the things about it that make your heart sing. If you come up with enough to help you shift your attitude around it, great! If not, then it’s time to reconsider if this new venture is aligned for you.

2) Institute a “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” Policy Until You Feel Confident: Now, don’t get me wrong. I LOVE telling family and friends and colleagues and clients about all of the new juicy things I’m up to. I love getting support and bringing folks into the picture with me. However, here’s what I’ve found to be true, both for myself and for many women I’ve worked with: if you let others in on your new program or budding relationship or book idea too soon, you leave yourself vulnerable to unintentional criticism or fear or doubt before you yourself are feeling fully confident in your new thing.

Instead, what I recommend is keeping your news to yourself until you feel strong enough and excited enough about it that Aunt Sally telling you you’re crazy from moving from corporate to not-for-profit won’t feel like an earthquake hit.

3) Be Honest with Yourself about your Fears: Starting something new is scary. Plain and simple. As my clients often hear me say – Fear is PART of the process of up-leveling and moving forward. That’s just how it is. What’s important is how you handle your fear: do you ignore it? Run away from it? Let it sabotage you? Or, are you willing to acknowledge and face your fears so that you can move past them?

Being able to do this is key to soul-centered success in anything you do.

4) Skip Towards Something New Instead of Running Away from Something Old: Whether it’s a new relationship or a new job or teaching new subject matter or a new diet, you want to make sure that you’re starting it for the right reasons. The right reasons can be: because you are excited, because you feel passionate about it, because it makes your heart sing, because your intuition is telling you it’s right.

The #1 wrong reason for launching something new: because it allows you to leave or run away from your current situation.

In other words, you want to move to a new city because you LOVE this new city, not simply because you hate where you are right now. Or, you want to launch a new group program in your business because you are so psyched to do it; not because your current group program simply isn’t working.

Of course: get out of the relationship or job or situation that isn’t working for you. But don’t run onto the next thing simply because the current one is mis-aligned. If you do this, you might find yourself running away again pretty soon thereafter.

Brain Science You Can’t Afford to Ignore

Thursday, June 30th, 2011

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Have you ever sat down to write an article or to do something really important – only to get up two minutes later to do something like get a glass of water? You might then go back to the important thing you were supposed to be doing but another minute later you drift off to make a shopping list for later in the day. Eventually you remember to get back to the task at hand, only to forget and make a doctor’s appointment instead. You try and try to get back to the task you’re supposed to be doing but then you decide that updating your Facebook status is a much better idea. Eventually you probably give up – throw in the towel for the day and you probably feel awful … like you just wasted your entire day.

Sounds familiar, right? We all do it.

We’re prone to distractions and all those little things that we distracted ourselves with is actually a form of self-sabotage! No one wins when you are sabotaging yourself and you have only yourself to thank!

Self-sabotaging makes everything feel longer, harder, and it becomes exhausting! Most people even berate themselves into oblivion – which just makes the whole situation worse. Fear not, I have some interesting scientific information for you about distractions and self-sabotage.

Neuroscientists recently discovered just how deeply the brain holds the patterns that eventually lead us to distraction and sabotage! There’s good news, though! Apparently, the brain can also re-wire those patterns so that we can take consistent positive action in our lives.

I often write about re-patterning and breaking away from self-sabotage – I even teach a free teleclass on it! If you identified with the person I described above, don’t worry – there’s hope!

It’s time to stop feeling stuck, exhausted, frustrated, and angry at yourself AND others – it’s time to set yourself free to accomplish YOUR goals! Take a moment to visualize your current project and really take notice to what your brain is telling you isn’t working. Your brain can help you unlock the major steps that you’re missing or overlooking but you need to sit down first and take a moment. That moment helps.

Aside from taking moments to breathe – so you don’t become overwhelmed, you may want to consider your self-sabotage. If you want to learn step-by-step how to re-wire those negative patterns, stop thinking those thoughts like “I’m not good enough” and “I don’t deserve this” – and learn how to start believing that you ARE worth it because you ARE good enough! Negative thoughts will keep you from getting what you want.

I teach a lot of great tips like this in my Re-Patterning Your Negative Thoughts and Habits teleclass. My next class is coming up soon! If you want to learn how to eliminate those distractions that stand in your way of success, join me and register for this complimentary class on July 13th! To register, simply go to http://soulfulcoach.com/innerwisdomteleclass.php. Your future is yours, let me help you on your path to success.

What Do In-Authenticity, Resentment and Wishy-Washyness Have in Common? Unhealthy Boundary Setting!

Sunday, June 5th, 2011

Do any of these situations sound familiar?:

Your client pays you a month late…for the third time.
You swallow your roommate’s jab at your choice of outfit, again.

Your child wakes you up for the fifth time at night.
You say “yes” with a grimace to Aunt Jane when you are asked to cook for the family get-together even though you are swamped with work.

These situations are all results of unclear, abused boundaries. Unhealthy boundaries can leave you feeling exhausted, resentful, and inauthentic in your relationships. When you allow your boundaries to be violated, you also often end up lacking in time, money and self-care.

Examples of good boundaries:

  • Having a schedule and sticking to it
  • Being clear about your rate, services, and availability
  • Agreeing on timelines
  • Knowing your “No’s” – what is it that is a deal breaker for you, is not okay – and following through on it
  • Taking care of yourself before you take care of others

What happens when you have good boundaries:

  • You feel energized
  • You feel clear
  • You find you are taking better care of yourself
  • Your relationships feel authentic
  • You have time for things
  • You feel abundant
  • You are able to serve in more ways
  • You enjoy life more

So, what do you do if you sense that you are allowing your boundaries to be crossed and violated? Here is my proven 4-part process for creating healthy and happy boundaries in your life: ...keep reading

Who’s your Mama? How to get nurtured, loved, and supported

Thursday, May 12th, 2011

I appreciate Mother’s Day in a whole new way now that I’m a Mother myself.

I realize that it’s not just about honoring my mother, but it’s really about taking a day to get the importance of being mothered - of being nurtured, loved, seen, appreciated, taken care of.

For some of us, this is exactly how our mothers mothered us. For others, not so much.

Here’s what I’ve come to learn: no matter how loving  your mother has been, no matter how nurturing your mother has been, no matter how encouraging your mother has been, there is no mother on the face of this earth who is perfect. Period. Not even me (though sometimes I tell myself I am!).

In other words, none of us have found in our mothers the opportunity to ALWAYS be seen, always be heard, always have our opinion valued, always be given the benefit of the doubt, always be respected.

And because of it, as you grow up, you might feel a little unseen in the world, undervalued, unheard. Or perhaps somehow your relationship with your mother created for you the feeling that you were always responsible for her or your family, or that it was unacceptable to break the pattern of illness or addiction or lack in your family, or that you would be unloved if you became your own, separate person. Perhaps somehow you were told that you were “too much” or “not enough”. Or maybe the message was you’ll never REALLY be successful, or that you’re not attractive enough.

Whatever the story was for you, chances are there is a story, and that story has had a profound effect on your life and your image of yourself. ...keep reading

Do You Have a Vision for Your Life?

Sunday, March 6th, 2011

Congratulations! So you have finally allowed yourself to recognize (even if just a little bit, like a tiny little whisper) the deep calling of your heart - that you would like to leave your job, write a novel, create a family, start painting portraits, really expand your business in order to reach more people, whatever it may be. But before you are even able to pick up a paintbrush, or make an hour of time in your busy schedule to write, you are bombarded by a slew of criticism whether internal or external.

Sometimes this criticism is enough to make you close the door and double bolt your soul-centered desire all together! What was I thinking?! You may ask yourself.

Well, I want to give you the opportunity today to move out of questioning yourself and being stuck, and onto a path of truly and deeply honoring that soul-calling.

I’m going to let you in on an amazing tool that will help you stay centered and strong no matter what rears its head on your path toward soul-centered living and success. This tool will give you ...keep reading

This is the most personal post I ever wrote…

Thursday, March 3rd, 2011

I want to tell you about an incredibly powerful and transformative breakthrough I’ve recently had in my life.

This is probably the most personal I’ve ever gotten in an email to my community, and I feel a little vulnerable sharing it with you. However, my inner wisdom keeps telling me that it is really important that you hear it.

So, it’s a little longer than usual, but it’s INCREDIBLY important, so here it goes…

Many of you have noticed that I have new headshots. (Thank you for all of the loving compliments and well-wishes you’ve given me on them!!!!)

Here’s what you don’t know about my headshots: it took me TWO WHOLE YEARS of contemplating getting them before I was actually ready to do it.

I knew I needed headshots because I hated the photos I had up on my website and marketing materials. Every time I looked at them I cringed because they just didn’t feel right.

And yet, I still didn’t make time to call a photographer and schedule a photo shoot.

For a long time I thought I was just too busy to get them done. Or, I told myself, I needed to wait until my hair grew to a certain length. Or, I told myself that it was the wrong time of year. Or, I told myself that it wasn’t a worthy investment.

Well, this went on for a while until I started getting unsolicited feedback about my photos. I was told by quite a number of people - some that I had just met! - that those old photos looked nothing really like me, that they didn’t convey my soulful and transformative energy and abilities, and that it looked like I was hiding from the camera in them.

To be honest, at first I was kind of insulted by those comments. Then one day it hit me - I WAS hiding from the camera in those photos, and not just from the camera, but from my community, my current and future clients, my partners, my mentors, and anyone that would come across them.

I was scared of being visible. I was scared of being truly seen and noticed by others. I realized that by not featuring headshots that showed the “real” me, I was allowing myself to stay small and to stay safe and to stay comfortable by not really letting my photographs convey the power of my work and my incredible ability to help women heal their wounds and move forward radically with their businesses, careers, art, relationships and so much more.

Why? ...keep reading

Have You Created a 3-Tiered Support System for Success?

Sunday, September 12th, 2010

Delegating is so incredibly important because the more successful you become and want to be, the more responsibility there is. You are not supposed to be doing it all on your own! In fact, any good leader knows that the way to accomplish all that you want to accomplish is by enlisting others to help you out.

By asking for support on your projects, soul-centered goals, and in your life, not only do you achieve what you want to achieve more quickly and easily, but you also avoid exhaustion and overwhelm. And here’s the added bonus: when you enlist others to help you out, you are empowering those support individuals by putting responsibility and power in their hands.

What I’ve found is that, for the most successful results on any project or goal, it’s important ...keep reading


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