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Blog Summit - Day 7 - How to Be Grateful When Things Piss You Off

Wednesday, November 16th, 2011

Can you believe it’s already Day 7?! That means the Gratitude Project is almost here! I can’t wait to spend the top of each hour with you learn, teaching, and crafting a new way to be grateful! Want to spread the word? I’d love the help! Still on the fence? Take a look at the schedule I’ve set up to help us all experience different waves of gratitude here! I hope to hear you on the call!

jen_zwiebel_small_headshotOur first guest writer today is one of my favorite advocates of joy, Jennifer Zwiebel. She is an Intuitive Organizer, author, speaker and founder of A Place of Joy™: Inspired Organizing and Business Strategies for Creative Entrepreneurs. Jennifer guides clients to clear out both their inner and outer space, release chaos, and design systems that bring ease, joy and prosperity to their businesses and lives. Join the Place of Joy™ community at www.aplaceofjoy.com, and get started on your own path to clarity and joy with Jennifer’s powerful gift to you at www.aplaceofjoy.com/10minutemiracle. You can also connect with Jennifer via Facebook and Twitter!

How to Be Grateful When Things Piss You Off
by Jennifer Zwiebel
I’ve been consciously practicing gratitude for the last few years and I can see the difference in the way I feel, what I focus on and what I attract. I now walk down the street grateful for the shining sun, for the fact that I get to walk my son to school, for the miraculous baby I hold in my arms. I start my mornings being grateful for the gift of the day that lies ahead of me and end my day listing at least three things for which I am thankful.

This is not to say that there aren’t plenty of things for which I am not so grateful. There are the dirty dishes, the piles of paper, the loads of laundry… I’ve discovered, however, that while it’s less easy to appreciate the things that make you cranky, scared, or pissed off, that’s where the gratitude actually gets more rewarding.

You see, your mind can’t do two things at the same time. Your first instinct may be to get frustrated when something pisses you off, but when you choose to find a reason to be grateful instead, you refocus your mind and veer off in a new direction.

Let me give you an example. One morning I pulled aside the shower curtain and discovered that our bathtub was carpeted in hair. My husband had given himself a haircut and neglected to clean the tub. My first thought was, “Ewwww!” My second thought was, “Why didn’t he clean it up?? Did he not SEE the hair???”

I realized I was quickly heading into a morning full of frustration, and decided to redirect my thoughts. I latched onto the first one that came into my head: “I’m grateful he still has hair.” That worked for about 60 seconds, but then I started cleaning the tub and got all pissed off again.

So I worked harder to pull my mind back onto another track, and this time started thinking about how grateful I was that he’d stayed up the night before with our son who’d developed a fever. This led me to be grateful that he was such a good father, that I had him as a partner, that we were working together to raise our children in a loving, respectful way. By now the thoughts were flowing naturally, and both my mind and heart were in a grounded, grateful place.

This didn’t mean that I forgot about the hair in the tub, but it meant that I could (1) get past the anger and do what needed to be done so I could move forward, (2) tell my husband what I didn’t like and what I needed in the future in a calm way that enabled him to hear me, and (3) regain perspective and spend time being amazed at my real good fortune.

This practice may feel forced in the beginning, and your mind will likely revert quickly back to the initial not-so-grateful feeling. But if you’re willing to keep searching for something else to be grateful for, you’ll be surprised at how quickly your mind expands and fills with reasons to rejoice.

Blog Summit - Day 5 - Find Time to Walk, Live and Breathe to the Beat of Gratitude

Monday, November 14th, 2011

Day 5 is running so smoothly! Tell me, what makes you grateful today? I’m grateful for all the people who have partnered with us and joined the Gratitude Project! It’s an opportunity to deeply key in to the power of giving thanks consistently for an entire day, and to walk away with an amazing box of gratitude tools that you can use for manifestation and prosperity whenever you wish. Take a moment to find out more here!

paula_ederToday’s second writer is someone I look up to and admire! I am so grateful that she took time out of her busy schedule to join us! Paula Eder, PhD, founder of Finding Time is an internationally-known coach and published author who mentors heart-based entrepreneurs and small business owners, from the inside out, to align their core values and energy with their time choices and behaviors so that they make more money, create more freedom, and find more time. To learn more about Paula’s unique, Heart-Based Time Management System ™ and begin your transformational journey, sign up for her Finding Time Success Kit. Discover how you can find time for what matters most. Take a moment to connect with Paula through Twitter and Facebook!

Find Time to Walk, Live and Breathe to the Beat of Gratitude
By Paula Eder, PhD

Finding time to slow down, breathe deeply, and savor your moments is a daily challenge. And this can be especially challenging during the busy holiday season. I know the feeling and I am guessing that you do, too.

When life is buzzing with activity and your To Do List is overflowing with plans and tasks, it is easy to lose sight of the fact that your cup is filled right to the brim, too … filled with things you can feel grateful about!

The thing is, we just get so busy sometimes that we forget. We don’t see. We lose our heart-based connection to ourselves and our moments. If we sense that something is missing, we’re likely to just work harder and move faster, thinking that will help.

But it’s really the opposite that we need.

So here’s what you can do.

Pause and be still in the quiet. Breathe in and out. Feel your heart beat. Keep breathing deeply as you let this heart-based rhythm carry you inward. Know that this is the warm and sustaining engine of your being. Let yourself feel grateful for its steady and life-giving beat.

From that foundational place, let your gratitude expand outward. Let its light touch the people and events of your day. Perhaps a face from your past emerges … a teacher or friend who you remember with thankfulness.

Pausing to let yourself discover and move to the beat of gratitude is one of the most meaningful and rejuvenating gifts that you can give yourself.

But I would ask that you think of it as a responsibility … not a gift. That’s because living from a place of gratitude not only enhances your experience but also enables you to:

  • Be more present to the people and the moments of your life;
  • Have more energy and a more positive attitude; and
  • Get more done!

Not only is it important to experience your own feelings of gratitude – it’s also vital to express your gratitude. It’s like breathing in and out – you need to do both! When you walk, live, and breathe to the beat of gratitude, you bring with you a powerful energy. This energy is expanded, deepened, and enhanced when it is shared.

As William Faulkner wrote:


“Gratitude is a quality similar to electricity: it must be produced and discharged and used up in order to exist at all.”

So, to fully experience your moments, during the holidays and all year long, inhale deeply, savor completely, and exhale joyfully … you’re moving to the beat of gratitude. Give it a try, and I am quite sure that you will see a difference in your energy and your attitude as you travel this heart-based path!

Blog Summit - Day 5 - Grateful for Gratitude

Monday, November 14th, 2011

Day 5 of the Gratitude Project Blog Summit is already here - can you believe it?! We’re only a few days away from the Gratitude Project (11/18) - have you signed up? When you cultivate gratitude, you experience your life in a positive, trusting, and confident way - are you ready to take this journey? I think you are! Join us and sign up!

jenny_marie_picI’m so excited to introduce a brand new voice to my community! Jenny is a Spiritual Healer and Teacher, in Australia. In the pursuit of her own healing, firstly of a physical nature and later emotionally and spiritually, Jenny started the search to find the answers to heal herself over 10 years ago, when she had a healing treatment with a Reiki Master. As Jenny had always had a passion for wanting to help others in some way, she became interested in healing on a wider scale. She went on to become a Reiki Practitioner and her journey was well on the way. The need to learn more and find the Holy Grail to healing saw her study many forms of energy healing, including Spiritual Surgery (a.k.a. Zenna Healing), Reconnective Healing®, Medical Intuition, Crystal Healing, Thought Field Therapy, Angel Intuitive as certified by Doreen Virtue PhD, ThetaHealing™ and most recently Tamara Healing. Jenny now believes that the first step to healing is Self-Love and incorporates everything she’s learned to bring about the most positive outcome for healing to take place with her clients. Jenny also runs regular Guided Meditation/Psychic Development classes, Goddess Playshops and offers Distance Healing to those who live afar. She can be contacted through her website www.soulinspiring.com. You can also connect with Jenny through Facebook!

Grateful for Gratitude
By Jenny Marie
A few days ago I was asked to write a post on Gratitude as part of a Gratitude Blog Summit being held in the States. At first I felt honoured to be asked to write something for this event and then the thought came to me ‘what is expected of me’ - did they want me to write what I’m grateful for or write what gratitude means to me. The response was that it was basically up to me and to consider my post a piece of art. So in the end I decided to write my usual daily Gratitude Blog but include some information about how and why I got started writing a Gratitude Blog and the benefits.

Well it didn’t happen overnight, that’s for sure. I believe the concept of gratitude first came to me many years ago - I’d say it would have to be over 10 years ago, when I had a baby and I was watching the Oprah show. Oprah talked about gratitude and I cannot remember exactly what she said but it obviously struck a chord with me. The one thing I do remember she said and what I started to practice, was to write in a journal each night before going to bed, at least 5 things I was grateful for.

Now, being a quite negative person myself, I felt this would be a great thing for me to do. I believe I had already embarked on my spiritual journey at that point so I was absorbing whatever enlightening information I could get my hands on and I saw this as a step in the right direction for me. So I purchased a diary and began to write each night what I was grateful for. Sometimes it was easy and sometimes not so easy, it really depended on what had happened that day. I didn’t realise it at the time, but now I see that when it was difficult, and to this day this can still happen to me now and then, you are not truly being grateful, but going through the motions of just writing what you’re grateful for, just for the sake of writing. It doesn’t matter if you’ve had a boring day at home or a lousy day at work, there is always a gift in whatever your day has brought you. And this is the gift in writing what you’re grateful for - seeing the silver lining or the learning’s in each day, if it hasn’t been the best day or rejoicing in the wonderful experiences that have blessed our day. All in all, they are all blessings.

“Gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind.” - Lionel Hampton

After a period of time, writing in my diary all the things I was grateful for, I found that it changed my life in a positive way. I became more aware of the gifts in life. I became less negative in my outlook to life and family noticed the difference - I believe it caused a ripple effect of positive vibes. I also found that the more I was grateful for what I already had in my life, I attracted to me more things to be grateful for. Abundance in many ways flowed to me.

“When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears” - Anthony Robbins

After a period of time, I fell off the gratitude wagon for whatever reason. I guess life got in the way or more likely a traumatic experience pulled me away from this life I was now enjoying. Many years went by and I came to the conclusion that I was not happy. I had fallen back into the negative patterns I had once banished from my life with constant reminders from my then partner. I questioned how I could have let this happen. At this time I had started to read a Facebook friend’s gratitude note she wrote each night and posted on Facebook. She did not always have the best days, suffering from constant migraines, but she always appeared to find something to be grateful for. She was my inspiration and the turning point for me to get back into being grateful once more for my life. And for starters I am grateful to her for getting me back on the gratitude wagon.

Of course when I got started again in writing what I was grateful for, I didn’t want to fall off the wagon again, so I decided to put it out there for everyone to see, just like my good Facebook friend was doing. I already had a website which included a blog function, so I decided to write a daily blog and I called it Attitude of Gratitude. I felt this would keep me accountable, after all, once people started to read it, they would expect it every day. I found after some time, I also inspired others to write a gratitude journal or blog which greatly pleased me. It must be close to 2 years now that I have been writing this blog. The first year I wrote every day, unless I was away from my computer. When I was back in front of my computer, I would include all the things I was grateful for over those days I couldn’t submit my blog. To this day I still write my Gratitude Blog. I admit there are days when it is difficult to write as I’ve had the lousiest day or the most boring or laziest day. On those days I dig a little deeper to see the blessings, but they are always there and that is something in itself to be grateful for. And I’ve gone through periods where I haven’t written for a few days as I have been too tired after staying up late doing some work, but on those days, I still say a prayer before bed, voicing my gratitude to the angels, Creator and my guides for the day I’ve had. The Gratitude has put me back on track with my life and I have become more positive in my outlook, attracting more positive people to me, more positive experiences and a happier and healthier life. Now that’s something to be grateful for :)

My advice is - just start now… be grateful, and if you can, write it down as this makes it more real and something you can look back on with how far you’ve come. It may take a while to see the benefits, but the benefits do come in your outlook to life and how life gives back to you in so many ways. Yes, it’s not always easy, we are all human after all and we can have what seems like the worst days sometimes, but you will be surprised how you will realise that there are blessings, even in the most terrible days. These are the days we discover that we have grown the most and we then find we appreciate the joys in life all the more.

Today I am so happy & grateful for the opportunity to write this gratitude post for the Gratitude Blog Summit. I feel honoured and truly blessed for this experience.

I am grateful for making the effort to write this post first thing after rising this morning so it can be emailed in time.

I am grateful for the opportunity to sleep in after a late night.

I just learned the other day that there is a rare condition where people continuously feel hungry - their brain does not give their stomachs the signal that they are full. I am grateful for my stomach letting me know that I am hungry this morning and that when I have eaten, my stomach tells me when I’ve had enough. There are so many things we take for granted each day and it’s these stories you hear that make you treasure your life all the more.

I am grateful for a beautiful sunny day outside and the sound of birds welcoming the morning.

I am grateful for being me, as there is nobody else quite like me and I have many gifts and talents to share with the world, which I am just beginning to discover now.

Happy Gratitude Blog writing everyone. Once you start, you will never look back - it will change your life forever!

Love, light & inspiring blessings,
Jenny Marie xx
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Blog Summit - Day 4 - Being Grateful with an Open Heart

Sunday, November 13th, 2011

Wow! Can you believe it, we’re already on Day 4 of the Gratitude Project Blog Summit! I’m grateful for each and every moment of this day as it brings us a little closer to the main event of the Gratitude Project (11/18)! For more information about what to expect and to register, sign up here!

meggan_picThere is so much to be learned from our first writer today - she’s truly one-of-a-kind! Allow me to introduce Meggan Watterson! She is the founder of REVEAL, a women’s spirituality organization that empowers women to connect to the love within them, reclaim their bodies as sacred, and become soul-led agents of change in the world. Meggan leads the REDLADIES, a REVEAL initiative, which provides REVEALers with a spiritual community. (Some break bread together, REDLADIES break dark chocolate. Smile.) She has her Maters of Theological Studies from Harvard Divinity School and a Masters of Divinity from Columbia University. Her work has been featured in media outlets such as The New York Times, Women’s Radio, Feminist.com, Feministing.com and StyleSubstanceSoul.com. She is currently writing her first book, REVEALYour Soul. (Hay House, 2013.) You can learn more about REVEAL by visiting www.revealconference.org. To connect with Meggan, visit her website at www.megganwatterson.com.

Being Grateful with an Open Heart
By Meggan Watterson
At first, there’s a colossal effort. Imagine. Someone has hurt you or betrayed you. Maybe even someone very close to you, the closest you’ve ever let someone in. The action is most often, a reaction. A classic- put-up your dukes, a closing down of the heart, a massive constriction. A whole lot of “Oh yeahs” and pointing fingers goes on for a while. The blame game happens. And then you arrive at the place where the reaction ends, and all that’s left is your shut-down heart, your hurt, your love for that person blocked. Derailed. You wait there wounded in an emotional train station called validation. You wait and wait wanting more than anything to be averred, to receive the absolution you are convicted your innocence deserves.

Sometimes you wait there for years. A whole lifetime. Convinced that some wrongs scale the fence of ever being forgiven. But that’s when you remember that you’ve forgotten what being ungrateful does to your own heart. You remember that no matter what anyone has done to you- no matter the depth of the wrong- it’s up to you to free up your loving. It’s up to you to open back up the magical values of your heart.

You remember that the greatest offense is having no defense. You unfold the truth inside you like a Chinese fortune written in red that states: She Who Resists Nothing Has The Power To Overcome Anything. The inner- chant starts up again, “Transformation comes from within.” You hear it resound within you, until you remember again, that nothing outside of us can keep us from living our truth, from revealing our soul. The deepest fee-u escapes you, then. You can exhale, breathe again. The blood congealed, coagulated around your heart thins with the new oxygen, starts to flow again, pump strong. Maybe even stronger than it ever has before.

Fighting heart disease has a lot less to do with bacon that most might assume. The heart is a physical organ, yes, but it’s also a state a being. Living in and from the heart is a spiritual practice. It’s an arduous effort of embodiment. Gratitude is always the key.

When you find yourself locked out of your own heart’s door. Remember. You can always be grateful. No matter what has come your way- you can thank that challenge for making you stronger. You can thank that heartbreak for allowing your love to reach where it had never been asked to go before. And yes, you miss out then on the blame game, and you skip the purgatory of awaiting redemption, awaiting external validation. You go straight to the pith of it all- the quality and capacity of your own heart to give and receive love.

But don’t ever be fooled that we’re here to do anything more or anything less. Love is all there is. So try it, if you dare. Give up dodging a slap to the soul. Give up the fear of something or someone who can break you. Be grateful. With a wide open heart. Be grateful for everything that comes your way. And watch your life transform. From the inside out. Watch how much power you have when you choose love at all costs.

Blog Summit - Day 3 - Entrepreneurial Gratitude

Saturday, November 12th, 2011

Wow, it’s Day 3 and it’s hard to believe the Summit is nearly over even though it just began! We’ve heard from some powerful people so far but what does gratitude mean to you? Join us on November 18th for some powerful exercises and rituals that can help YOU incorporate consistent gratitude as you attain your soul-centered goals. Registration for this free event takes only a moment - so register here!

nika_stewartI’ve learned so much from our previous writers but my dear friend, Nika Stewart, has a different take on gratitude - the entrepreneurial side of gratitude. Some describe Nika Stewart as a talented, quirky, edgy designer, while others regard her as a cutting-edge businesswoman. And while both descriptions are accurate, they do not capture her true essence. Nika is a lifestyle entrepreneur: A professional who has seamlessly integrated her career into her life. After building a successful career as a designer, she created an information marketing business so she could spend quality time with her family. Nika discovered that other moms were searching for that same flexibility and freedom, so she launched www.LaptopMom.com to teach others how to create passive income… during naptime! You can connect with Nika via Twitter and Facebook! You can learn more about the Laptop Mom’s most popular program, Social Media Done For You, at www.GhostTweeting.com.

Entrepreneurial Gratitude
By Nika Stewart
Do you ever have these types of thoughts?

  • I wish I didn’t have so many challenging customers.
  • Why can’t I find higher-end clients?
  • My customers don’t spend that kind of money.
  • The market is really slow right now.

Remember: “What you focus on… expands.

When you instead start feeling gratitude for the business you NOW have, you will start to attract more of those things you are grateful for.

Do you have clients who pay you (even if it seems like a small amount)? Be grateful for them.

Are you able to arrange your schedule to have a little quality time with your loved ones? Feel gratitude for this blessing.

Are you doing what you love for a living? Remember to feel thankful everyday for this opportunity.

“The daily practice of gratitude is one of the conduits by which your wealth will come to you.” - Wallace Wattles, author of The Science of Getting Rich

Recently, I created a Gratitude Experiment for my clients and ezine readers. For seven days, participants wrote down 5 things they felt grateful for. If they were feeling frustration around business, they focused on appreciating every good thing about it. A great comment from a client. The flexibility to take an hour for lunch. The ability to work in their pajamas.

After just a few days, we got comments like:

“It’s amazing how well it works and how much inspiration there is in this simple exercise.”

“This exercise has taught me to be appreciative of all things, regardless of how small they may seem.”

“I feel a warm fuzzy and think this is a great way to end the day or begin it!”

“This is the best exercise, I am feeling so happy! Let’s not stop.”

Feeling gratitude: It’s simple. It’s powerful. It fuels your success.

Looking forward to sharing in your happiness, appreciation, and gratitude.

Blog Summit - Day 3 - How to Live a Life of Gratitude

Saturday, November 12th, 2011

I am absolutely blown away by the response from the blog summit! I’m so excited for Day 3 - I promise that today will be just as mind blowing as the first two days! Gratitude is not something that comes lightly but I am so grateful to each and every writer and partner that I’ve had the pleasure of working with through this whole process! We’re banding together to make the Gratitude Project a massive (and global) event on November 18th! Care to join us? For more information about what to expect and to register, sign up here!

adaliaToday, our first featured writer is a phenomenal woman and someone I would call a healer: Adalia John. As the owner of Circle of Enlightenment, Adalia is a certified hypnotherapist and the confidence solutions coach. Her mission is to help female entrepreneurs to have the confidence to grow themselves and grow their business. How confident are you to take action to make your dreams real? If you’ve had it with being stuck, filled with uncertainty and thinking you’re not good enough, get your free 21 days of confidence boosting tips and your confidence will soar. For more on Adalia, check out her blog: www.adaliaconfidenceandsuccessblog.com. You can also connect with her via Twitter and Facebook!

How to Live a Life of Gratitude
By Adalia John
What would you do if you prepared a feast for your friends and instead of showing gratitude for the time, effort, and love you put into creating the meal, they openly expressed dissatisfaction with every dish?

You probably would not fix another meal for them. Even if all of your dishes were not tasty, they should have thanked you for taking the time to prepare them AND you should thank them for coming by.

That is the Law of Gratitude
The law of gratitude says you should live in appreciation, see the positive in your situation and give thanks.

Do YOU find it difficult to be thankful because:

  • Your baby kept you up all night. You’re stressed and you’re saying to yourself “I don’t think I can do this?”
  • You’ve gained a few pounds?
  • You’re not attracting clients?
  • You had a call from your doctor and the news is not good?

How to Re-frame and Give Thanks
Your baby kept you up and you’re stressed. Isn’t that a more welcomed experience than having a sick baby in the hospital? Re-connect to the joy you experienced at your baby’s birth. Give thanks for having such a treasure. Focus on your blessing and you will not be stressing.

You’ve gained a few unwanted pounds and you’re feeling like crap. STOP for a moment, reflect on the body parts you take for granted. Reflect on the things your body does that you take for granted. Now imagine just one of those is taken away. Don’t wait for it to happen. Love your body in spite of the extra pounds and give thanks for every part and function of your amazing body.

You’re not attracting clients. Is it your marketing or your thinking? The reason isn’t important for showing gratitude. Try this: give thanks for the clients you’ve had and for the those to come. The law of gratitude allows you to give thanks for things that have yet to take physical form … they already exists in the spirit world. Give thanks, believe, take inspired action and they will appear.

The doctor gave you some devastating news. You have a medical challenge and you’re thinking “how can I possible re-frame this and be grateful?” Yes, you can, you’re standing and breathing, give thanks and focus your thoughts on your healing. Research has shown that a mind filled with thankfulness increases your body’s resistance and healing power for major illnesses.

Gratitude is an Energy Thing
Gratitude is energy and so are your thoughts. What you focus on expands.

Think gratefully and your dreams will become real. Shout gratitude and the echo will influence the masses and heal the world. Share gratitude with those you meets in your daily life and they’ll thank you for the positive energy flow.

Live in gratitude and you’ll be richly rewarded by the universe.

Blog Summit - Day 2 - Gratitude and Appreciation – Inseparable Partners?

Friday, November 11th, 2011

It’s officially Day 2 of the Gratitude Project Blog Summit! Our first day went off without a hitch and we are one day closer to the main event for the Gratitude Project - find out all about it here!

simon_pic3To kick things off today, let me introduce you to Simon Duncan of the Inspired Life Portal. His site, http://theinspiredlifeportal.com/index.html acts as a way to help you to explore, discover and live your authentic self. Simon’s goal is to inspire you to live your truth, to listen to your heart and to act on it, and to do all of this himself. To this end, he wrote The Loving Life Program – a free 7 day course to help you to connect with the love that is ever present within, and to experience that in all areas of life. Find out more and sign up for The Loving Life Program here. You can also find Simon on Facebook and on Twitter.

Gratitude and Appreciation - Inseparable Partners?
By Simon Duncan
Is gratitude just about giving thanks and being grateful? Is an attitude of gratitude just that – an attitude? What else is there? I believe for gratitude to be truly sincere it must be heartfelt and combined with appreciation – whether or not it is expressed. Let me explain.

When you give thanks, the emphasis is on the giving. Giving out, giving from yourself to someone or something outside of you. And that giving is very important. It is an expression of feeling, an outpouring from your heart, an outward flow of one of the many forms of love. It is what your heart is designed to do. Express love.

Or at least half of what your heart does.

Your heart is your giver and your receiver of love. I’m not talking about romantic love here, though that is one aspect. I mean the love that connects us all and gives life to everything. Your and everyone’s heart has channels in and out through which love in all its forms flows. When your heart is fully open love flows in and out equally, smoothly, without barriers. But what happens if your outbound channels are open, but the inbound channels are restricted? Simple – the outbound channels restrict too, and the flow decreases.

So to give love out fully in the form of gratitude, you must be accepting the inflow of love too. Appreciation is that inbound flow of love. And so gratitude and appreciation go hand in hand.

Accepting the flow of love both in and out is crucial to your health and your well-being and is essential if you want to help others and to truly express your gratitude. When someone is kind or says something lovely to you, let it in. Don’t block it with a barrier of unworthiness. All that does is limit the depth of your gratitude when you try to reciprocate. When nature shines its beauty upon you (as it constantly does), drown yourself in it and allow that beauty to fill you with its love. When someone praises you, gives you a hug, or says ‘I love you’, open up and let it in.

The result of all that appreciation will be a natural opening of your gratitude channels and love will pour from you with a greater and deeper feeling than you have ever known. Nor does this need to be expressed in words (though don’t hold back). The flow of love as gratitude is the true sincerity. It’s less what you say, and more the love that you say it with.

So open your heart and allow gratitude and appreciation to light up your life and the lives of those around you.

Blog Summit - Day 1 - How Are You Doing Gratitude?

Thursday, November 10th, 2011

The first day of the Gratitude Project Blog Summit is going so well and I am personally SO grateful that you could find a few minutes to join us! This day has been a blessing and I am thrilled for the main event of the Gratitude Project! On November 18th, you can call in and experience some powerful exercises on Gratitude! For more info and to register, head here!

jen_u_picI am beyond grateful for our next writer. Jennifer Urezzio is a brilliant mind and personal friend! She is the founder and spiritual director of Know Soul’s Language – a way to create a conscious connection with your Soul. You can learn more about her at: www.knowsoulslanguage.net. Feel free to connect with Jennifer via Facebook and Twitter or befriend her personally here!

How Are YOU Doing Gratitude?
By Jennifer Urezzio
You know gratitude is a funny thing. We hear a lot about it. We know we are “supposed” to do it and what I believe happens is this: life’s patterns get in the way.

Recently, it was my birthday! YAY, for me! I received over 300 Facebook well wishes. I was grateful for each one of those messages and yet…I noticed myself not fully pausing and letting those wishes and support truly be received.

Again, here was another example to really pause and practice what I preach. To PAUSE and connect with the Divine and with my Soul.

I believe gratitude is just another way of experiencing your connection with your Soul. It is an opportunity for you to PAUSE and explore that feeling of being one with Creation. So for me, it is important how I choose to conduct gratitude.

How are you choosing to conduct gratitude?

  1. Are you racing through it, so you can get to the “things” on your list that you haven’t received?
  2. Are you practicing gratitude because you “think” it will help you get what you want?
  3. Are you practicing gratitude because you were told it is the “right” action to take?
  4. Are you present in gratitude? Giving your heart over to gratitude and being one with the Divine?

That last one is how I intend to conduct Gratitude. Some days, I’m really spot-on with that intention and other days…Well, other days, I get to really connect to my Soul and the Divine to remember who I am and the truth of me!

See, it is all one – gratitude, abundance, love, joy…These are all aspects of the Divine and if you want to have a deeper relationship with the Divine than I suggest you meet the Divine on its playing field.

Start with just being present

If your answer was anything other than D, you can step up your gratitude practice. I suggest the first step is just being present. Be present with how you feel as you are expressing gratitude. Are you thinking about other things? Are you looking into someone’s eyes when you say thank you? Just for today when you offer gratitude to other just be in the moment. See how that changes your day and than your life.

Blog Summit - Day 1 - The Key to Happiness

Thursday, November 10th, 2011

Welcome to the first day of the Gratitude Project Blog Summit! I am so excited that this day is finally here because it means we’re another day closer to the Gratitude Project on November 18th! You can find out all about it here!

barbara_retouched_partialTo get the summit started, I want to introduce one of today’s wisest minds (and a close, personal friend of mine), Barbara Biziou. Barbara offers necessary tools for creating prosperity, love, joy and success in the 21st Century. She integrates her extensive knowledge of global spiritual practices, rituals and psychology into your life - transforming you from merely surviving to THRIVING. She is the renowned go-to expert for high-end, custom ceremonies, global rituals, weddings, and the celebration of all life’s passages. She is also the revered author of The Joy of Ritual and The Joys of Family Rituals, as well as a respected national TV personality who has worked with clients ranging from Donna Karen to Equinox Gym to Barney’s New York. You can learn more about Barbara by visiting www.joyofritual.com and you can connect with her via Facebook and Twitter.

The Key to Happiness
By Barbara Biziou
The only way I know to sustain real comfort in these times of collective anxiety is to practice living in the moment.

Appreciating what we have is the magical tool to creating harmony and joy. Gratitude is a key that turns the lock and opens the mind and heart. It reminds me of what I do have and allows me to shift focus from scarcity to prosperity.

My 93-year-old mother is a perfect example of this. When I spoke to her this morning and asked her how she was, she responded with a simple answer of what was right in her life. Even though she fell yesterday and is banged up, all she told me was, “the sun is shining today and the fall could have been worse”. She has the ability to be totally present in the now and looks for the good in any situation. Like a small child, she is aware of the beauty and magic in everything around here.

When I am able to slow down (not easy for a New Yorker) enough to see and appreciate the beauty in life, I transcend the ordinary and my spirit opens to joy. Life becomes simple again and I am more than able to cast away my tendency to over worry and over think life.

I know that it is up to me to change how I view the world. There is a freedom in being in the present moment. In this place I can bless every gift the Universe sends me from the love I already have in my life to a friendly smile from a stranger.

This does not mean I am a Pollyanna and unaware of the realities of life. It just means that I more easily accept the challenges life throws my way. I am consciously aware of my current reality, but do not let it define my future. In this way I gain greater energy and an increased capacity for joy.

I have learned that whenever I show appreciation, I actually reinforce the good that I bless and it increases and grows. When I criticize (especially myself) I reinforce the bad that I don’t like and it also increases and grows.
My friend Donna Henes once told me, “Whenever you find yourself criticizing yourself, apologize and pat yourself on the back!” This has become one of my favorite rituals to share. Thanks, Donna!

Today, I give thanks for all the people in my life who have given me love, support and caring. I bless the Earth and all who live on and in her who have added to my life.

Sometime in the next week, make sure to call and/or write to share your appreciation with the special people in your life. Don’t wait! Life is a gift and we need to appreciate each moment.

Guest Post: Celebrate Who You Are Being

Friday, October 14th, 2011

paula-photoI am so excited to have Paula Gregorowicz, owner of The Paula G. Company, guest posting on the blog today! Paula is a close friend of mine and I am thrilled with the amazing work she does. She helps people get out of their own way and make wiser decisions through the power of Intuitive Intelligence(tm). She helps people break free from the terrorist of negative voices in their own minds that hold them back from discovering and successfully creating the work they are most meant to do in the world. If you are searching for a way out of feeling confined, restricted, and frustrated and are ready to breakthrough these limitations you can learn more about Intuitive Intelligence and get the free report: Your Own Uniqueness: The Path to Purpose, Prosperity, and Playfulness at http://www.thepaulagcompany.com.

Celebrate Who You Are Being

By Paula Gregorowicz

I recently had the opportunity to reflect on my experiences from the powerful time I describe in this post as I create a new, cutting-edge group program called A New Lens on Your Life: Reinvent, Reinvigorate, and Rejoice in You. While the actual experience of documenting a year in my life through my own eyes is almost a decade behind me now, the ripple effect and impact it had on my life is as real to me today as it was back then. Hope you enjoy the post and can join us in the program (see below for details).

Being Celebrated

Have you ever stopped to consider your own unique perspective that you bring to the world? Do you honor your own unique gifts and views or do you look to others for validation and confirmation of what you think, say, or do?

Much of our life is spent on autopilot seeing and doing things without much conscious intention. We tend to discount the very fact that we can see things through our own eyes in a way that is unique to us. It is unique to us based on many factors-who we are, what we are taught growing up, the experiences we’ve had throughout our life, and who we cause ourselves to be on a given day. It today you are being creative and confident, how do you acknowledge yourself for that?

Do you feel like what you think isn’t important? That you aren’t very creative? Wonder how time flies by so fast, where the time goes, and how you missed life along the way? Is your soul yearning to be heard, acknowledged, and honored? Do you want a record of your life to share with your children or grandchildren? Would you like to make each day a celebration of who you are being?

Being Acknowledged

A few years ago I realized that a part of me felt unacknowledged and in need of having my view of the world validated in some way. I knew that this need had to be met from within myself. While being acknowledged by other people can be wonderful, I’ve learned that looking to someone else to meet our emotional needs is a long, lonely road to feeling hollow inside. So, I set about determining what action or practice I could take to really honor my unique view of the world on a regular basis.

What came up for me (a total surprise, I might add) was the inspiration to create a photo journal of my 32nd year. The practice I structured into my life was, starting on my birthday I would take at least one picture every single day for one year. It could range from a well-thought-out artistic photographic effort or a simple snapshot depending on my mood for a given day. It could be a photo of any person, place, or thing as long as it was my personal experience of perspective each day.

It was an interesting project to say the least. Some days it was very easy to find my picture of the day—holidays, birthdays, special events. Other days I captured something I never would’ve been able to capture and share otherwise—something unique or on a bike ride. Still other days I’d find myself towards the end of the day without having taken my picture, searching for something, anything to photograph.

Believe me, over the course of this particular year, my partner, neighbors, and family often didn’t even know what hit them when a blazing camera flash would surprise them in the middle of a wedding, gardening, cooking, hanging pictures, or sleeping. The good news was my cats were always willing to bail me out with a photo opportunity when necessary and they rarely complained.

What’s the point of all this you might ask? Well, besides being fun, it really gave me the opportunity to honor and acknowledge my unique angle on my small corner of the world while allowing me to be more present and aware of the blessing and gifts to be found each day. It even had a side benefit of rekindling my photographic passions, which resulted in me furthering my education in this area and launching the photography side of my business.

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To Celebrate and Acknowledge Who You Are Being

No matter who you are or what you do, how you see the world and who you are being is uniquely yours. You can start taking a more active role in your own life by practicing the art of honoring your own perspective.

Consider some of the following activities to stimulate your creativity and bring some of your authentic self to your life experiences:

  • Create a daily photo journal of your life. If a year seems too intimidating, starting with the next month, quarter, or season. Share this journal with loved ones or choose to keep it as a private testimonial of your life.
  • Start a daily journal. Ponder one question, topic, or area of your life each day and learn more about your most important asset–you.
  • Organize a scrapbook. A book honoring the milestones and activities of life is not only for babies, teenagers, or retirees.
  • Create a daily photo or written journal of your next trip or vacation. Have every member of the adventure create his or her own or contribute to yours. It doesn’t have to be fancy or cost much money. Disposable cameras make this an easy and inexpensive activity for all ages. Share them at some point when you’re back home to relive the memories and celebrate everyone’s experience.

Join us for the 7 Week program: A New Lens on Your Life: Reinvent, Reinvigorate, and Rejoice in You at a very special price. Because you are in Joanna’s community (and I SO love Joanna and her work), I’m offering you a $500 discount. You can claim that special deal here.


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