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Blog Summit - Day 8 - Gratitude, Thankfulness, and Grace

November 17th, 2011 by Joanna

We’re nearing the end of the Gratitude Project Blog Summit but we’re SO much closer to the BIG day! Are you taking part in tomorrow’s revolutionary call-in? There’s still plenty of time to register! Even if you only have a few minutes at the start of each hour, I urge you to spend it with the Soulful Coaching community as we exercise and practice these powerful gratitude rituals! Take a few moments to look at the agenda for tomorrow by clicking here.

danielle_bishopDanielle Bishop is new to the Soulful Coaching community and I’m really excited to introduce you to her because she has a really great story to tell on gratitude. Danielle is a blogger over at We Have It All - she’s married and a great mom to five kids with another on the way! By day she’s a childcare provider and by night she’s a freelance writer! She’s a Christian mama who enjoys writing about parenting, family life, and even has time for some amazing product reviews! She’s doing her best to stay sane in a world of chaos and she’s grateful for that ability! Keep up with Danielle by following her on Facebook, Twitter, and even WhatToExpect.com!

Gratitude, Thankfulness, and Grace
by Danielle Bishop

When I think of the word “gratitude” the word “thankful” comes to mind. The word “grace” follows.

What am I thankful for?

I could fill up a notebook, line by line, with the little things like a cup of coffee before bed, the quilts laying in every room of my house, a shower *alone*, open windows throughout the house on beautiful days, all of the neighborhood kids playing in my backyard… and the list could go on until the end of eternity. Or I could list the big things like the love of my amazing husband and 5 fantastic kids, our health, having both of my parents still, having a roof over my head and food on the table… and again, this list could also go on and on.

But in reality, these things are are not things that have just ‘fallen’ in my path. These things are all provided by God.

Ever since my kids were little and we prayed together, I’ve always taught them to begin their conversation with God by thanking Him. Thank Him for what He has blessed you with. If it were not for Him, where would we be?

And I’ve often thought to myself,

If tomorrow came and you woke up with only what you had thanked God for today, what would you be left with?”

So what am I really thankful for?

God’s Grace and Love.

God’s unmerited favor that I do not deserve. I could nothing to ‘earn’ His love and His Hand on mine guiding me along through my valleys and struggles.

There have been days in my past when I did not know what I was going to feed my kids that night for dinner. Those same days where an acquaintance would show up at my door and say, “We won’t eat this stuff, but I was hoping you and your kids will”.

There have been days in my past where I could not see the light at the end of the tunnel… but then out of the darkness appeared His light. His hand outstretched telling me, “Grab on to my hand and I will lead you”

I have done none of this within myself. Of course I have always tried my best to do what was right but ultimately I have done nothing without God.

Romans 7:18 says, “I know that nothing good lives in me – I mean, nothing good lives in the part of me that is earthly and sinful. I want to do the things that are good, but I do not do them”.

It was always God by my side.

Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Christ, because he gives me strength.”

It was always God. It was Him that has had our lives in the palm of His hands. And I am so thankful for His love and mercy and grace.

Look at what he has blessed me with:

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Life, Love and Heath.

I can not look at this photo and not see what God has done for us.

I have so much to thank Him for.

Blog Summit - Day 8 - Gratitude Integrated

November 17th, 2011 by Joanna

The BIG day is almost here -  have you registered? The Gratitude Project is going to be revolutionary and I hope you’ll take part in it! Imagine how much better your life, your business, and your soul would be if you took a few minutes every day to be grateful. For the past week, we’ve read posts from people of all walks of life - everyone has a different view on gratitude. What’s yours?

shelley_hawkinsMy good friend, Shelley Hawkins, MS, has another perspective on gratitude. As a Teacher, Author and Intuitive, Shelley coaches professional men and women who are ready to break through the inner obstacles that hold them back and keep them repeating the same frustrating patterns–in relationships, business, work, health, wealth and in who they are being—to create their soul-driven lives intentionally and LIVE their radical selves. To apply for Private Coaching with Shelley at The Self Connection™, click here. Subscribe to The Self Connection™ award winning Ezine and Monday Wisdoms™ for F.R.E.E. energy transformation and inspiration to support you in your soul-driven, intentional life. Coming soon, The Self Connection™ Live Yourself™ Breakthrough Experience. To connect with Shelley, you can find her on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn!

Gratitude Integrated©
by Shelley Hawkins, MS
One of the paradoxes of transformation is that gratitude for both what you love and the presence of what you don’t love are both a way of saying, “Yes”, to Life. The paradox being that acceptance, like forgiveness, is not condoning the condition; it is a way of evolving through it.

Gratitude is like driving your stake deep in the ground and saying, “this is where I stand”. You are validating your very existence, your cosmic necessity to and with the whole, and your ability to create with it. Your gratitude says, “Yes, I’m willing to participate with Life with my unique genius from what I know and where I am right now in the giving and receiving of Life.” It becomes the attraction for all that you desire and the transformation of what you do not.

That is not where I started with gratitude. Like most, I suppose, I knew to count my blessings, which evolved into disciplined thankfulness and the power of a positive attitude. A few years later came energy, gratitude lists to build my gratitude muscles, and other tools and disciplines to keep it flowing.

But it became most fun when it penetrated the surface, went beyond what I wanted to create, beyond politeness, beyond my disciplines, beyond avoiding “negative” emotion, and became an integrated way of being—not perfection, mind you—being.

Rachel Naomi Remen said, “Those who nurture the hidden wholeness in those around them become the architects of a new world.” The integration of gratitude acknowledges that wholeness, the invisible—or not so invisible—connections between all that is. Gratitude integrated as a way of being then becomes your path of authenticity, of creative intention, and of wholeness for yourself and a new world.

©2011 Shelley Hawkins, The Self Connection™, All Rights Reserved

Blog Summit - Day 7 - How to Transform Your Body into the Body of YOUR Dreams through Gratitude

November 16th, 2011 by Joanna

I’ve been re-reading through all of the amazing posts that have accumulated throughout the Gratitude Project Blog Summit. There have been so many brilliant minds and I am so grateful to each and every one of them for their insight! We have two more days still of the blog summit which means the BIG DAY is so much closer! Have you registered? Take a moment to think about how this world might be better if we were all a little more grateful. We can accomplish a better world together, it all starts with the Gratitude Project!

amandaaltasummer2011Ever wondered what your body has to do with gratitude? My good friend, Amanda Moxley, brilliantly explains to connection between the two. Amanda is a Body Transformation Expert and Coach who first transformed her own unhealthy relationship with food, body image and body size from a size 14 to a size 4 naturally and without going to extreme measures. Amanda is a board-certified holistic health coach, yoga teacher, certified social worker (CSW) and an award-winning business owner. She is an avid world traveler, wife and mother. For free gifts and more go to www.AmandaMoxley.com. If you’ve ever struggled with your weight, body image, emotional eating, or self sabotage with food, Amanda’s “Get YOUR Ultimate Body in 30 Days Guided Visualization” and the “Love Your Belly Guided Visualization” will allow you to discover the SOUL root of the issue and get you on track to feeling radiantly healthy, energized and alive. Grab your free mp3’s here.

How to Transform Your Body into the Body of YOUR Dreams through Gratitude
by Amanda Moxley
How often throughout your day do you catch yourself thinking or feeling thoughts about not liking your body, or wishing it looked different, or beating yourself up about not eating the right thing, or being mad at yourself because you let yourself down again by not keeping your commitments and intentions to yourself or calling yourself fat or feeling frustrated because your clothes don’t fit?

Tune in to your inner dialogue today and measure on a scale from 1-10, 10 being your highest how much energy, feelings, thoughts and time you are spending on thinking negatively about your body, body image, size or food.

What’s your number? I’ve coined that number your Body Barrier™ number.

Using the POWER of gratitude, let’s channel your Body Barrier™ number into your heart’s true desires!

Love is the ONLY ABSOLUTE.

Love is the highest VIBRATION.

According to Heart Math Institute the heart is 5000 times more powerful than the brain. Transforming your body requires you to move deeper into LOVE and this can be easily done by being grateful.

Step 1: Think of the body part you may have disowned or that you deeply dislike.

Step 2: Sit in a quiet and safe place. Enjoy some deep nourishing breaths. Conjure up all of the unkind thoughts, feeling and emotions you express to your disowned body part on a daily basis.

Step 3: Think about a person in your life who you LOVE whole heartedly and unconditionally. It could be your child, sister, mother or niece.

Step 4: Imagine saying the mean things you express to yourself habitually every day of your life to your beloved.

Step 5: Can you do it?

Step 6: AH HA! Do you see now? You wouldn’t and couldn’t ever express any of the mean things you say to yourself daily (some of you for 20 plus years) to your beloved. So, why are you doing this to yourself?

Step 7: Place your hands on your disowned or deeply disliked body part and imagine you have white light in your hands, breathe this light into your body.

Step 8: Have a heart to heart with your body. Tell it you are sorry and that you never knew how mean you were being to it. Tell it you love it and will do anything to heal your relationship.

Step 9: What about this particular body part are you grateful for? Mentally or physically write down everything you are grateful for about this body part.

Daily Body Transformation Ritual
Every morning and evening when you are lying in bed, place your hands on your body and breathe love and gratitude into it. Mentally go through every reason why you are grateful for your body. Next, dedicate a special gratitude journal to your body and write 5 ways in which you are grateful for your body today. Please do NOT repeat the same 5 things every day! This will stretch your imagination and your appreciation muscles!

Your body was meant to be healthy and vibrant. Trust the simplicity of this exercise and watch your body transform before your eyes over then next month.

Radiantly yours,
Amanda

Blog Summit - Day 7 - How to Be Grateful When Things Piss You Off

November 16th, 2011 by Joanna

Can you believe it’s already Day 7?! That means the Gratitude Project is almost here! I can’t wait to spend the top of each hour with you learn, teaching, and crafting a new way to be grateful! Want to spread the word? I’d love the help! Still on the fence? Take a look at the schedule I’ve set up to help us all experience different waves of gratitude here! I hope to hear you on the call!

jen_zwiebel_small_headshotOur first guest writer today is one of my favorite advocates of joy, Jennifer Zwiebel. She is an Intuitive Organizer, author, speaker and founder of A Place of Joy™: Inspired Organizing and Business Strategies for Creative Entrepreneurs. Jennifer guides clients to clear out both their inner and outer space, release chaos, and design systems that bring ease, joy and prosperity to their businesses and lives. Join the Place of Joy™ community at www.aplaceofjoy.com, and get started on your own path to clarity and joy with Jennifer’s powerful gift to you at www.aplaceofjoy.com/10minutemiracle. You can also connect with Jennifer via Facebook and Twitter!

How to Be Grateful When Things Piss You Off
by Jennifer Zwiebel
I’ve been consciously practicing gratitude for the last few years and I can see the difference in the way I feel, what I focus on and what I attract. I now walk down the street grateful for the shining sun, for the fact that I get to walk my son to school, for the miraculous baby I hold in my arms. I start my mornings being grateful for the gift of the day that lies ahead of me and end my day listing at least three things for which I am thankful.

This is not to say that there aren’t plenty of things for which I am not so grateful. There are the dirty dishes, the piles of paper, the loads of laundry… I’ve discovered, however, that while it’s less easy to appreciate the things that make you cranky, scared, or pissed off, that’s where the gratitude actually gets more rewarding.

You see, your mind can’t do two things at the same time. Your first instinct may be to get frustrated when something pisses you off, but when you choose to find a reason to be grateful instead, you refocus your mind and veer off in a new direction.

Let me give you an example. One morning I pulled aside the shower curtain and discovered that our bathtub was carpeted in hair. My husband had given himself a haircut and neglected to clean the tub. My first thought was, “Ewwww!” My second thought was, “Why didn’t he clean it up?? Did he not SEE the hair???”

I realized I was quickly heading into a morning full of frustration, and decided to redirect my thoughts. I latched onto the first one that came into my head: “I’m grateful he still has hair.” That worked for about 60 seconds, but then I started cleaning the tub and got all pissed off again.

So I worked harder to pull my mind back onto another track, and this time started thinking about how grateful I was that he’d stayed up the night before with our son who’d developed a fever. This led me to be grateful that he was such a good father, that I had him as a partner, that we were working together to raise our children in a loving, respectful way. By now the thoughts were flowing naturally, and both my mind and heart were in a grounded, grateful place.

This didn’t mean that I forgot about the hair in the tub, but it meant that I could (1) get past the anger and do what needed to be done so I could move forward, (2) tell my husband what I didn’t like and what I needed in the future in a calm way that enabled him to hear me, and (3) regain perspective and spend time being amazed at my real good fortune.

This practice may feel forced in the beginning, and your mind will likely revert quickly back to the initial not-so-grateful feeling. But if you’re willing to keep searching for something else to be grateful for, you’ll be surprised at how quickly your mind expands and fills with reasons to rejoice.

Blog Summit - Day 6 - Gratitude: How This Simple Feeling Improves Health

November 15th, 2011 by Joanna

In just two days, we embark on an amazing journey - are you ready for the Gratitude Project? I am beyond excited for this day of gratitude and I hope you’ll join me! All it takes is 10 minutes at the start of each hour to phone in and practice important exercises that will really help you feel more gracious and grateful! Take a chance and sign up!

lynn-compressedThis afternoon’s guest writer is none other than Lynn Smith! As a health guru, she has a unique spin on gratitude - and it’s one that will help your health! Lynn is a women’s weight loss expert, providing weight loss programs that work to shift a woman’s beliefs about what is possible for herself. To receive tips for weight loss, articles and guidance, subscribe to her newsletter “Vibrant Living for Women” at www.healthcoachteam.com.

Gratitude: How This Simple Feeling Improves Health
By Lynn Smith
What if there was a simple way to improve your health that didn’t require dieting or exercise? Would you do it? There is and that simple way is expressing gratitude.

New research is showing that there is scientific evidence that gratitude produces health benefits. Two foremost researchers in the field of gratitude are psychologists Robert Emmons at the University of California at Davis, and Michael McCullough, at the University of Miami.

Emmons and his colleagues at the University of California at Davis are among the pioneers in research on gratitude, which is part of a larger movement called positive psychology. Positive psychology studies health-promoting behavior and the pleasurable parts of life rather than focusing on illness and emotional problems.

They found that people who kept gratitude journals on a weekly basis exercised more regularly, reported fewer physical symptoms, felt better about their lives as a whole, and were more optimistic about the upcoming week compared to those who recorded difficulties or neutral life events.

Those who kept gratitude lists were also more likely to have made progress toward important personal goals. Young adults who practice daily gratitude had higher levels of alertness, enthusiasm, determination, attentiveness and energy compared to the group that focused on difficulties. The research keeps adding to the list of benefits that come from practicing gratitude.
The reason for this is because when we think about someone or something we really appreciate, and experience the feeling that goes with the thought, the parasympathetic—the calming-branch of the autonomic nervous system— gets triggered. The electromagnetic heart patterns of volunteers tested became more coherent and ordered when they activated feelings of appreciation.

Another study at the University of Connecticut found that gratitude can have a protective effect against heart attacks. While studying people who already had one heart attack researchers found that those patients who saw benefits and gains from their heart attack, such as becoming more appreciative of life, experienced a lower risk of having another heart attack.

There is evidence that when we practice bringing attention to what we appreciate in our lives, more positive emotions emerge, thus causing alterations in heart rate variability. This may not only relieve hypertension but reduce the risk of sudden death from coronary artery disease. According to Emmons, those who practice grateful thinking “reap emotional, physical and interpersonal benefits.”

How can you put this to use in your life?

It can be as simple as a “Thank you” to someone who did something for you. But if you truly want to harness this power in your life make a daily habit of writing down things you are grateful for. Emmons says the act of writing “allows you to see the meaning of events going on around you and create meaning in your own life.”

Set aside some time, maybe at the end of your day, to reflect and record. You may even want to buy a special journal to use.

Create a space and make this a daily ritual.

Blog Summit - Day 6 - Make a List and Check it Twice

November 15th, 2011 by Joanna

Have you ever thought about what this world would be like if people were a little more patient and a bit more grateful? I’ve envisioned that world and so have all of our guest writers! This experience has been phenomenal so far and it’s making me really excited for the Gratitude Project on November 18th! Have you signed up yet?!

yolanda_hairstonI want you to meet my new friend, Yolanda Michelle Hairston! While she currently lives in the Holy Land, Yolanda spends much of her time experiencing the world through travel! I’m excited to introduce you to her today because she has some very good points on how to be grateful in a meaningful way.

Make A List and Check and Check It Twice
Yolanda Michelle Hairston
When I was a young child, I loved to sing along to children’s songs by Hap Palmer. One holiday album had a song for Thanksgiving, and I used to sing it every day. Once, I even “surprised” my Mom by calling her to my room to see something, which was me, singing along to the instrumental version, with lyrics changed slightly to express my gratitude towards her for being such a terrific mother. Her tears of joy and gratitude touched me, and that amazing feeling of expressing gratitude and receiving it reverberate in my soul to this day.

Thirty-something years later, I don’t remember the lyrics verbatim, but they went a little something like this:
There are many things I am thankful for
And I know I’m not alone.
There are many things I am thankful for,
I can name them on my own:
I’m thankful for the earth,
I’m thankful for the sea,
I’m thankful for the friends I have,
And I’m thankful to be me.
That was my first introduction to the powerful experience of listing the things I have for which to be grateful. I love to make lists, as I find they help me not only focus, but they also prevent me from forgetting.

There are times in life when we feel insecure, sad, lonely, and frustrated, and like Mary J. Blige sang, “all [we] really want is to be happy.” If happiness begets happiness, how do we pull ourselves from underneath the dark cloud that sometimes hangs over us? Make a list and check it twice. List the many things you are thankful for, whether large or narrow in scope. Feeling lonely? List all of your friends and the nice people in your life, or the different ways you can go out and make new friends. Feeling insecure? List all of the good things about yourself, your accomplishments, compliments you have received. Feeling like your life sucks? List all of the ways in which it does not. Do not limit yourself or your lists; include the fact that you are able to write or to type if you are stuck, and branch out from there. Our working bodies are miracles that we take for granted, so be thankful and grateful for your body and all of its intricate mechanisms that keep you alive.

On one particularly horrible day, when I felt so down and blue, I made a list of all of my blessings for which I am grateful, and I ran out of paper. Such profundity in that exercise– the length of the list, the range of simple to grand things on the list, and the increase in joy and happiness I felt once I had completed it. I checked it twice, smiling along the way, and my soul felt that things were not so bad after all if I had so much goodness in my life. The gratitude list changed my outlook and my focus, and the sun shone a little brighter the next day.

What if you could only be granted tomorrow what you are grateful for today? Make a list and check it twice.

Blog Summit - Day 5 - Find Time to Walk, Live and Breathe to the Beat of Gratitude

November 14th, 2011 by Joanna

Day 5 is running so smoothly! Tell me, what makes you grateful today? I’m grateful for all the people who have partnered with us and joined the Gratitude Project! It’s an opportunity to deeply key in to the power of giving thanks consistently for an entire day, and to walk away with an amazing box of gratitude tools that you can use for manifestation and prosperity whenever you wish. Take a moment to find out more here!

paula_ederToday’s second writer is someone I look up to and admire! I am so grateful that she took time out of her busy schedule to join us! Paula Eder, PhD, founder of Finding Time is an internationally-known coach and published author who mentors heart-based entrepreneurs and small business owners, from the inside out, to align their core values and energy with their time choices and behaviors so that they make more money, create more freedom, and find more time. To learn more about Paula’s unique, Heart-Based Time Management System ™ and begin your transformational journey, sign up for her Finding Time Success Kit. Discover how you can find time for what matters most. Take a moment to connect with Paula through Twitter and Facebook!

Find Time to Walk, Live and Breathe to the Beat of Gratitude
By Paula Eder, PhD

Finding time to slow down, breathe deeply, and savor your moments is a daily challenge. And this can be especially challenging during the busy holiday season. I know the feeling and I am guessing that you do, too.

When life is buzzing with activity and your To Do List is overflowing with plans and tasks, it is easy to lose sight of the fact that your cup is filled right to the brim, too … filled with things you can feel grateful about!

The thing is, we just get so busy sometimes that we forget. We don’t see. We lose our heart-based connection to ourselves and our moments. If we sense that something is missing, we’re likely to just work harder and move faster, thinking that will help.

But it’s really the opposite that we need.

So here’s what you can do.

Pause and be still in the quiet. Breathe in and out. Feel your heart beat. Keep breathing deeply as you let this heart-based rhythm carry you inward. Know that this is the warm and sustaining engine of your being. Let yourself feel grateful for its steady and life-giving beat.

From that foundational place, let your gratitude expand outward. Let its light touch the people and events of your day. Perhaps a face from your past emerges … a teacher or friend who you remember with thankfulness.

Pausing to let yourself discover and move to the beat of gratitude is one of the most meaningful and rejuvenating gifts that you can give yourself.

But I would ask that you think of it as a responsibility … not a gift. That’s because living from a place of gratitude not only enhances your experience but also enables you to:

  • Be more present to the people and the moments of your life;
  • Have more energy and a more positive attitude; and
  • Get more done!

Not only is it important to experience your own feelings of gratitude – it’s also vital to express your gratitude. It’s like breathing in and out – you need to do both! When you walk, live, and breathe to the beat of gratitude, you bring with you a powerful energy. This energy is expanded, deepened, and enhanced when it is shared.

As William Faulkner wrote:


“Gratitude is a quality similar to electricity: it must be produced and discharged and used up in order to exist at all.”

So, to fully experience your moments, during the holidays and all year long, inhale deeply, savor completely, and exhale joyfully … you’re moving to the beat of gratitude. Give it a try, and I am quite sure that you will see a difference in your energy and your attitude as you travel this heart-based path!

Blog Summit - Day 5 - Grateful for Gratitude

November 14th, 2011 by Joanna

Day 5 of the Gratitude Project Blog Summit is already here - can you believe it?! We’re only a few days away from the Gratitude Project (11/18) - have you signed up? When you cultivate gratitude, you experience your life in a positive, trusting, and confident way - are you ready to take this journey? I think you are! Join us and sign up!

jenny_marie_picI’m so excited to introduce a brand new voice to my community! Jenny is a Spiritual Healer and Teacher, in Australia. In the pursuit of her own healing, firstly of a physical nature and later emotionally and spiritually, Jenny started the search to find the answers to heal herself over 10 years ago, when she had a healing treatment with a Reiki Master. As Jenny had always had a passion for wanting to help others in some way, she became interested in healing on a wider scale. She went on to become a Reiki Practitioner and her journey was well on the way. The need to learn more and find the Holy Grail to healing saw her study many forms of energy healing, including Spiritual Surgery (a.k.a. Zenna Healing), Reconnective Healing®, Medical Intuition, Crystal Healing, Thought Field Therapy, Angel Intuitive as certified by Doreen Virtue PhD, ThetaHealing™ and most recently Tamara Healing. Jenny now believes that the first step to healing is Self-Love and incorporates everything she’s learned to bring about the most positive outcome for healing to take place with her clients. Jenny also runs regular Guided Meditation/Psychic Development classes, Goddess Playshops and offers Distance Healing to those who live afar. She can be contacted through her website www.soulinspiring.com. You can also connect with Jenny through Facebook!

Grateful for Gratitude
By Jenny Marie
A few days ago I was asked to write a post on Gratitude as part of a Gratitude Blog Summit being held in the States. At first I felt honoured to be asked to write something for this event and then the thought came to me ‘what is expected of me’ - did they want me to write what I’m grateful for or write what gratitude means to me. The response was that it was basically up to me and to consider my post a piece of art. So in the end I decided to write my usual daily Gratitude Blog but include some information about how and why I got started writing a Gratitude Blog and the benefits.

Well it didn’t happen overnight, that’s for sure. I believe the concept of gratitude first came to me many years ago - I’d say it would have to be over 10 years ago, when I had a baby and I was watching the Oprah show. Oprah talked about gratitude and I cannot remember exactly what she said but it obviously struck a chord with me. The one thing I do remember she said and what I started to practice, was to write in a journal each night before going to bed, at least 5 things I was grateful for.

Now, being a quite negative person myself, I felt this would be a great thing for me to do. I believe I had already embarked on my spiritual journey at that point so I was absorbing whatever enlightening information I could get my hands on and I saw this as a step in the right direction for me. So I purchased a diary and began to write each night what I was grateful for. Sometimes it was easy and sometimes not so easy, it really depended on what had happened that day. I didn’t realise it at the time, but now I see that when it was difficult, and to this day this can still happen to me now and then, you are not truly being grateful, but going through the motions of just writing what you’re grateful for, just for the sake of writing. It doesn’t matter if you’ve had a boring day at home or a lousy day at work, there is always a gift in whatever your day has brought you. And this is the gift in writing what you’re grateful for - seeing the silver lining or the learning’s in each day, if it hasn’t been the best day or rejoicing in the wonderful experiences that have blessed our day. All in all, they are all blessings.

“Gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind.” - Lionel Hampton

After a period of time, writing in my diary all the things I was grateful for, I found that it changed my life in a positive way. I became more aware of the gifts in life. I became less negative in my outlook to life and family noticed the difference - I believe it caused a ripple effect of positive vibes. I also found that the more I was grateful for what I already had in my life, I attracted to me more things to be grateful for. Abundance in many ways flowed to me.

“When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears” - Anthony Robbins

After a period of time, I fell off the gratitude wagon for whatever reason. I guess life got in the way or more likely a traumatic experience pulled me away from this life I was now enjoying. Many years went by and I came to the conclusion that I was not happy. I had fallen back into the negative patterns I had once banished from my life with constant reminders from my then partner. I questioned how I could have let this happen. At this time I had started to read a Facebook friend’s gratitude note she wrote each night and posted on Facebook. She did not always have the best days, suffering from constant migraines, but she always appeared to find something to be grateful for. She was my inspiration and the turning point for me to get back into being grateful once more for my life. And for starters I am grateful to her for getting me back on the gratitude wagon.

Of course when I got started again in writing what I was grateful for, I didn’t want to fall off the wagon again, so I decided to put it out there for everyone to see, just like my good Facebook friend was doing. I already had a website which included a blog function, so I decided to write a daily blog and I called it Attitude of Gratitude. I felt this would keep me accountable, after all, once people started to read it, they would expect it every day. I found after some time, I also inspired others to write a gratitude journal or blog which greatly pleased me. It must be close to 2 years now that I have been writing this blog. The first year I wrote every day, unless I was away from my computer. When I was back in front of my computer, I would include all the things I was grateful for over those days I couldn’t submit my blog. To this day I still write my Gratitude Blog. I admit there are days when it is difficult to write as I’ve had the lousiest day or the most boring or laziest day. On those days I dig a little deeper to see the blessings, but they are always there and that is something in itself to be grateful for. And I’ve gone through periods where I haven’t written for a few days as I have been too tired after staying up late doing some work, but on those days, I still say a prayer before bed, voicing my gratitude to the angels, Creator and my guides for the day I’ve had. The Gratitude has put me back on track with my life and I have become more positive in my outlook, attracting more positive people to me, more positive experiences and a happier and healthier life. Now that’s something to be grateful for :)

My advice is - just start now… be grateful, and if you can, write it down as this makes it more real and something you can look back on with how far you’ve come. It may take a while to see the benefits, but the benefits do come in your outlook to life and how life gives back to you in so many ways. Yes, it’s not always easy, we are all human after all and we can have what seems like the worst days sometimes, but you will be surprised how you will realise that there are blessings, even in the most terrible days. These are the days we discover that we have grown the most and we then find we appreciate the joys in life all the more.

Today I am so happy & grateful for the opportunity to write this gratitude post for the Gratitude Blog Summit. I feel honoured and truly blessed for this experience.

I am grateful for making the effort to write this post first thing after rising this morning so it can be emailed in time.

I am grateful for the opportunity to sleep in after a late night.

I just learned the other day that there is a rare condition where people continuously feel hungry - their brain does not give their stomachs the signal that they are full. I am grateful for my stomach letting me know that I am hungry this morning and that when I have eaten, my stomach tells me when I’ve had enough. There are so many things we take for granted each day and it’s these stories you hear that make you treasure your life all the more.

I am grateful for a beautiful sunny day outside and the sound of birds welcoming the morning.

I am grateful for being me, as there is nobody else quite like me and I have many gifts and talents to share with the world, which I am just beginning to discover now.

Happy Gratitude Blog writing everyone. Once you start, you will never look back - it will change your life forever!

Love, light & inspiring blessings,
Jenny Marie xx
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Blog Summit - Day 4 - Gratitude

November 13th, 2011 by Joanna

This whole experience has been phenomenal and I am so grateful for the amazing response to the Gratitude Project! It’s Day 4 and we’re half-way through this fantastic day! How’s your day going? Have you signed up for the Gratitude Project?  Take part in this amazing day filled with exercises and rituals that will help heal the world. There’s still time! Join us and sign up!

robin_riceOur next wise mind is one of my dearest friends, Robin Rice. I am so thrilled to be able to showcase her on a forum like this! Robin is a contemporary shaman, spiritual teacher and an internationally published novelist. Find her daily inspiration on facebook at www.facebook.com/BeWhoYouAreWithRobinRice or learn more at www.TheContemporaryShaman.com.

Gratitude
By Robin Rice
I don’t know about you, but as a child I was taught to say “thank you” as a duty for things given, including meals on the table. Later in life I was taught that gratitude was required in order to “get my attitude straight.” I was also told gratitude was required to get more of what I wanted or, on the other hand, not lose what I had. It all seemed the idea of gratitude was, well, rather tedious and somewhat of a way of gaming the system. It also brought out the judge in me, evaluating if I had enough to be grateful for or not, which of course was based on criteria I made up about what “should” be. That, coupled with a culture that teaches me with every advertisement that I don’t have enough no matter how much I do have… Well, let’s just say it left me less than grateful more often than not. Put all of these ideas together and I was a jumble of mixed messages that left me feeling like I never quite got it right.

Over the past few years, though, I’ve found myself rethinking all that. Or perhaps better said, re-feeling it.

It started with a sunset. I’d missed them just about every day for practically my whole life, but one day I happened to catch one. It was a stunner, causing me to think about all the ones I’d missed, and why, for some reason, I didn’t miss THIS one. Right then and there, my heart opened up. Just like that. What was this feeling? What was happening? Oh, wait. Could it be… Gratitude? But it wasn’t an obligation, it was a feeling! A response. A natural result to noticing the striking natural beauty that was right there. Who knows why it happened that day? I only know I started looking for more sunsets. And sunrises. Turns out, they happen every day, like clockwork. Who knew? I mean, we all know, but… who knew? It still blows me away.

The experience got something inside of me going. Without intending to, I was saying thank you more. Not only to people, but to… what… life itself? Whispers, shouts, words under my breath. Thank you. Thank you. Like a meeting with a star-crossed lover, only not so dramatic (and sometimes, way more dramatic). Bizarre. Gratitude was changing me. Yet I wasn’t TRYING to be thankful. It was just… happening.

Today if someone asked me about being grateful–I mean, really asked–I’d be a true and total gusher. Let me start with waking up, I’d say, which happens about 5:30 AM. My love next to me. My awesome bed. Heat in the winter. The quilt I found. And the smell of coffee. And the SUNRISE, oh yes, ever and still, different every day. And… I’d be full out weeping before I get to 8 AM.

Gratitude, now, is not a prod or a promise. It’s a posture. It’s a way to stand up in the morning and face the day with your jaw dropped and your heart open and your sense of wonder fully engaged. I whisper “thank you” to the green that erupts in spring, the leaves that fall in autumn, the moment… this moment.

What can I say? If I ever discover whomever, or whatever, is behind it all, they’d better watch out. There’s one full-out run and jump into a bear hug and a big wet, sloppy kiss coming.

Can’t wait.

Blog Summit - Day 4 - Being Grateful with an Open Heart

November 13th, 2011 by Joanna

Wow! Can you believe it, we’re already on Day 4 of the Gratitude Project Blog Summit! I’m grateful for each and every moment of this day as it brings us a little closer to the main event of the Gratitude Project (11/18)! For more information about what to expect and to register, sign up here!

meggan_picThere is so much to be learned from our first writer today - she’s truly one-of-a-kind! Allow me to introduce Meggan Watterson! She is the founder of REVEAL, a women’s spirituality organization that empowers women to connect to the love within them, reclaim their bodies as sacred, and become soul-led agents of change in the world. Meggan leads the REDLADIES, a REVEAL initiative, which provides REVEALers with a spiritual community. (Some break bread together, REDLADIES break dark chocolate. Smile.) She has her Maters of Theological Studies from Harvard Divinity School and a Masters of Divinity from Columbia University. Her work has been featured in media outlets such as The New York Times, Women’s Radio, Feminist.com, Feministing.com and StyleSubstanceSoul.com. She is currently writing her first book, REVEALYour Soul. (Hay House, 2013.) You can learn more about REVEAL by visiting www.revealconference.org. To connect with Meggan, visit her website at www.megganwatterson.com.

Being Grateful with an Open Heart
By Meggan Watterson
At first, there’s a colossal effort. Imagine. Someone has hurt you or betrayed you. Maybe even someone very close to you, the closest you’ve ever let someone in. The action is most often, a reaction. A classic- put-up your dukes, a closing down of the heart, a massive constriction. A whole lot of “Oh yeahs” and pointing fingers goes on for a while. The blame game happens. And then you arrive at the place where the reaction ends, and all that’s left is your shut-down heart, your hurt, your love for that person blocked. Derailed. You wait there wounded in an emotional train station called validation. You wait and wait wanting more than anything to be averred, to receive the absolution you are convicted your innocence deserves.

Sometimes you wait there for years. A whole lifetime. Convinced that some wrongs scale the fence of ever being forgiven. But that’s when you remember that you’ve forgotten what being ungrateful does to your own heart. You remember that no matter what anyone has done to you- no matter the depth of the wrong- it’s up to you to free up your loving. It’s up to you to open back up the magical values of your heart.

You remember that the greatest offense is having no defense. You unfold the truth inside you like a Chinese fortune written in red that states: She Who Resists Nothing Has The Power To Overcome Anything. The inner- chant starts up again, “Transformation comes from within.” You hear it resound within you, until you remember again, that nothing outside of us can keep us from living our truth, from revealing our soul. The deepest fee-u escapes you, then. You can exhale, breathe again. The blood congealed, coagulated around your heart thins with the new oxygen, starts to flow again, pump strong. Maybe even stronger than it ever has before.

Fighting heart disease has a lot less to do with bacon that most might assume. The heart is a physical organ, yes, but it’s also a state a being. Living in and from the heart is a spiritual practice. It’s an arduous effort of embodiment. Gratitude is always the key.

When you find yourself locked out of your own heart’s door. Remember. You can always be grateful. No matter what has come your way- you can thank that challenge for making you stronger. You can thank that heartbreak for allowing your love to reach where it had never been asked to go before. And yes, you miss out then on the blame game, and you skip the purgatory of awaiting redemption, awaiting external validation. You go straight to the pith of it all- the quality and capacity of your own heart to give and receive love.

But don’t ever be fooled that we’re here to do anything more or anything less. Love is all there is. So try it, if you dare. Give up dodging a slap to the soul. Give up the fear of something or someone who can break you. Be grateful. With a wide open heart. Be grateful for everything that comes your way. And watch your life transform. From the inside out. Watch how much power you have when you choose love at all costs.


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